Forgetting Dreams

I’m so frustrated with the number of dreams I forget when I wake up. Not so much the ones that were mental stories, but the ones that could have been great ideas but were forgotten the moment I woke up.

Ever get that feeling?

When I was a teenager, I remember speaking to a psychologist as part of our school program, which aimed to help students find the perfect career. At some point in our conversation, the psychologist asked me what I usually dream about. I answered, “I don’t really have any dreams.” Which, from my perspective, was true, because I’m not a fussy sleeper and I usually wake up with no memories of any dreams occurring.

The psychologist was a lovely lady, but she wasn’t happy with my answer. “That’s not true! Everyone dreams! Every time they fall asleep. Everyone dreams.”

So naturally I thought, “Well, where do all these dreams that she’s talking about go and why can’t I remember them?”

Last night I had the perfect dream for an idea. Idea for what? No idea. It disappeared as soon as I woke up. I keep trying to bring it back to my conscious but it’s not working. To be fair, it may not have been as impressive as I thought. Who knows. But it was certainly strong enough to wake me up in the middle of the night.

I wonder how many great ideas I’ve lost because of fleeing dreams.

*begins research*

31 thoughts on “Forgetting Dreams

  1. Sometimes I dream I can fly. It’s such an exhilarating experience. I can feel the wind on my face as I rise above the clouds and whisk away to whatever destination my subconscious mind chooses to take me. Then the box fan falls over with a crash and I wake up and realize I’m just an ordinary guy with no superpowers whatsoever. I hate it when that happens.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. I know exactly what you mean! I have recently woken up with two tremendous ideas for posts, and forgotten them by the time my big toe is out of bed.
    Thanks for dropping in and hitting the follow on my blog. I appreciate it. Welcome aboard.

    Liked by 1 person

  3. I’m endorsing all of the above suggestions, except, low-tech version is a small notebook on the bedside table, and as soon as you wake, write down whatever fragment of dream you remember, even if it’s only an impression. On my BA course I had to keep a dream diary for a term of my creative writing course. What I discovered is the more you write, the more you remember.

    Liked by 2 people

  4. Hi Jelena. Thanks for following my blog. I don’t usually remember most of my dreams either. However the most common theme that keeps on recurring since I was younger until now is about running out of time and meeting deadlines. Being late for the train, for the airport, for work, for exams, homework not completed. The intense worry in those dreams was real and how relieved I was when I woke up. πŸ˜…

    Liked by 1 person

  5. I know that feeling too well. It’s so hard to remember them. Many people suggest keeping a dream journal. That’s hard for me to do because I don’t have a table lamp on my side of the bed. And my writing space is not what you would call a writing space. Still, it would be beneficial to have a notebook nearby to record what you dream about.

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s